"We have two ears and one tongue so that we would listen more than we speak" - Epictetus
Listening is a vital aspect of communication, and it is essential to earn the right to speak by listening first. In today's world, where everyone wants to be heard, we often forget the importance of listening. However, listening is what allows us to understand others, build trust, and gain wisdom.
The Bible emphasizes the importance of listening in James 1:19, which says, "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." This verse reminds us that listening is crucial in our relationships with others and with God.
When we listen, we:
- Gain understanding and perspective
- Build trust and rapport
- Avoid misunderstandings and conflicts
- Show respect and empathy
- Learn and grow
On the other hand, when we fail to listen, we:
- Miss opportunities for growth and connection
- Create conflict and misunderstandings
- Show disrespect and disinterest
- Struggle to communicate effectively
The Bible says in Proverbs 18:13, "To answer before listening - that is folly and shame."
Let us strive to listen more and speak less, earning the right to speak by truly hearing and understanding others.
"The art of conversation is the art of hearing as well as being heard" - William Hazlitt
By listening more and speaking less, we can build stronger relationships, gain wisdom, and become more effective communicators. Remember, listening is a gift that allows us to connect with others and with God. Let us cherish it and use it well.
Marcel and Jackie Bruff
@walkgoodinchrist
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