Listen to earn the right to speak
In today's fast-paced world, communication is key. We're constantly bombarded with information, information and information.
In our eagerness to express ourselves, we often forget the importance of listening.
"My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry." (James 1:19)
The phrase "Listen to earn your right to speak" emphasizes the importances of actively listening to others.
Listening is not just a passive act; it's an active process that requires effort and dedication. When we truly listen, we gain understanding and insight, build trust and rapport, avoid misunderstandings and conflicts, and show respect and empathy.
"In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise"
(Proverbs 10:19)
Listening should precede speaking for several reasons;
1.) It allows us to understand the context and nuances of the conversation.
2.) It helps us tailor our response to the other person's needs and concerns.
3.) It prevents us from dominating the conversation or imposing our views.
4.) It earns us the right to be heard and taken seriously.
"To answer before listening is folly and shame." (Proverbs 18:13)
Active listening has numerous benefits, which includes; better relationships, improved communication, increased empathy and problem-solving with greater conflict resolution.
Jesus said, "Consider carefully how you listen" (Luke 8:18)
To become a better listener, try do the following:-
Give the speaker your undivided attention. Use verbal and nonverbal cues to show you are listening. Avoid interrupting or planning your response while the other person speaks.
In my reflection, I find that we all want to be heard. It's essential though, to remember that listening comes first. Active listening is the key to building stronger relationships, and earning the right to be heard. Remember, The Bible emphasizes listening, and encourages us to prioritize listening.
"Listen to earn your rights to speak" – it's a simple yet powerful principle that can transform the way we interact with others.
Marcel and Jackie Bruff
@walkgoodinchrist
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